This was our first Christmas in our first house, which is a big enough milestone to make for a memorable holiday. But this year, my uncle, whom I haven’t seen for more than an hour at a time in almost 6 years, visited from Albuquerque. Sure we grabbed lunch 14 months ago when I had a quick trip to Albuquerque, but that’s not the same as a good visit! Plus, my in-laws also came to visit.
Now, most people cringe at the mention of in-laws. That word can make even the most patient people shudder. But, I am blessed with what I have to say must be the best in-laws in the world. They are supportive while letting us stand on our own, and I really do see them as friends. Having been in a relationship many moons ago where my significant other’s parents viewed (and treated) me as the evil interloper, I am always thankful that my in-laws bless and welcome my marriage. But that topic is enough for a whole new post (heck, make it a series)!
On Christmas Eve, I had 9 family members over… 2 moms, 2 dads, a sister, 2 uncles, and an aunt (oh, yeah, and don’t forget the spouse!). That’s a full house. But instead of full, it felt comfortable. At one point during the evening, I had to go upstairs for some reason. As I was walking down the stairs, I was stopped in my tracks by the sounds of my family reveling in each other’s company. Laughing, yelling, talking… I sat on the stairs for a few minutes and just listened, and smiled. How can one feel nostalgia for a newly experienced moment? But that’s what I felt. Perhaps it was the immediate recognition of a treasured memory.
It’s so easy to take our relationships with our loved ones for granted. But as I sat on the stairs and listened to my large and boisterous family, I was swamped with affection and pride. This is MY family, I remember thinking. At that moment, I felt an indescribably strong connection to every person in my living room. At that moment, I felt the strongest gratitude and love for my family than I have ever felt before. I hope to never forget the warmth, the security, and the contentment of that moment.
You made it happen, Becca — your incredible gift of sharing and opening your home. It was a wonderful two days, one of the best Christmases ever. We truly are blessed with wonderful families — and what better way to celebrate those blessings… I am thankful every day for having you in my life!