How a Queen made me recognize the power of my own values

I just stumbled upon a great article on CNN about Queen Rania of Jordan.

“The most important thing is to instill [my children] with the right values,” Rania says. “I just feel that values are the shield that you carry with you throughout life. It protects you from whatever life throws at you.”

Helping others is something Rania says she feels compelled to do. “Once you feel that others are like you, then you want for others what you want for yourself,” she says. “And that way you start helping others.”

This is so true. Where I think people run into problems is in the belief that values should make us immovable and infallible. Each of us is given free will and intelligence, I wish we all had the confidence to use them: to apply our values to life’s situations in positive ways; to refine our values by learning from ourselves and others; to understand that values aren’t equal to religion, though they may be shaped by religion; to realize that we can look out for ourselves and our neighbors; to know instinctively that we all have value and add something important to the huge ecosystem of the universe; to recognize the beauty of ourselves in others. I hadn’t thought until now how much power my values hold for me.

Smiley green light

Check it out! There’s a smiley face in the traffic light. I’ve been greeted by this smiley on my way home from work for a couple of weeks now, but never remembered to have the camera out in time to snap the shot. As it is, it’s kinda hard to get a decent picture when you’re driving through the light. I can’t imagine other motorists would appreciate me stopping at a green light to get a picture. ;)

There's a smiley face in the traffic light

Work is the new play

Hmmm… If Bejeweled 2 is categorized as a Business application, does this mean Solitaire now qualifies as billable work time? Sweet!!

Musical memories and musings

I’ve lived in Texas for nine years and I don’t listen to Country music. In fact, I haven’t been a Country fan for a long time now. I recall classic country with fondness and wistfulness. I can see the little girl all those years ago in ratty shorts with my knees barely hitting the edge of the passenger seat of the pick-up, barreling down a Texan backroad singing along to Daddy’s 8-track tape of the Wabash Cannonball. 8-track! I’m not exaggerating, I swear!

Then I remember, in my college years, a nostalgic look back to countless hours in the car and on an Oregon beach listening to hits from Don Williams, Jim Reeves, Tom T. Hall, Patsy Cline, Kenny Rogers, and more. It’s grown into an extensive playlist merely dubbed Old Country. Old songs or old memories? A little of both.

Recently my sister convinced me to listen to Highway 16 on XM radio. Only to humor her, I set a favorite on my trusty Delphi SKYFi satellite radio and tuned in on the way home from the gym. That was three days ago. And as I type, I’m happily listening to a newly downloaded Brad Paisley album.

I turned up the radio so I could hear the lyrics to Ticks, a bubbly, tongue-in-cheek list of the many ways in which a man intends to admire his woman. Don’t get me wrong, this isn’t the cliche daydream of a snaggle-toothed redneck owning his woman! If your special guy gives you this list of excuses for checking you out, you’ll be a Jello in his capable hands. Okay, at least I would be. ;) And there’s a special purr-worthy aspect for folks who have ever encountered ticks–unless you’ve had that encounter, you don’t truly know how thorough that search would have to be! ;)

Then I heard Online, which is also dear to my heart because so much of it rings true in this day and age, and for a web geek like myself. The chorus of “I’m so much cooler online,” along with the references to sci-fi geekdom and Macs only ensures this song’s spot on my list of favorites.

Just those two songs were enough for me to preview the entire album on iTunes and subsequently purchase it. But it’s in listening to the entire album that I’m convinced I’m a new Paisley fan. The song Letter to Me stops me in my tracks. The song starts out with, “If I could write a letter to me/And send it back in time to myself at 17,” then offers wisdom to a young heart that only hindsight can offer. That makes me wonder… what would I write to myself in a letter to me at 17? At 22? At 32? Sometimes I sure could use the wisdom of my 42-year old self.

And all of these musings make me think I should keep a section of my journal dedicated to the songs that have given me such gifts of wonderment, humor, and healing. Goodness knows there have been plenty, and fingers crossed, many more to come.

Now go watch the video for Online–it’s a hoot and a holler! Then watch all the video responses to the Online video contest. More hooting and hollering, I promise.

Monday Madness - On huffing acetone

I can’t say it any better than John Scalzi, so hop on over and read his post “A Truly Stupid Amount of Money.”